Garner Family

Garner Family

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Traumatic Animal Issues



We have had a traumatic week this week. It all started early on Sunday morning. Amber was the first one up. She was up early and went downstairs to eat breakfast. The rest of us were mostly asleep still. She runs back up the stairs crying something has happened to Moonlight (Paige's gerbil).

So we all quickly jumped out of bed. It was easy to see that something was definitely wrong! She wasn't moving her back legs...it looked like she was paralyzed on her bottom half. Amber had found her on the bottom stair on the first floor. She lives in Paige and Amber's room in on the second floor in a cage. We could not figure out how she had gotten out and made her way downstairs. I had been up and let our dog Rex out about an hour earlier and hadn't seen anything. After interviewing everyone and not figuring out the mystery, we turned out attention to helping Moonlight be comfortable. We were pretty confident that she had broken her back and were pretty sure that there probably wouldn't be much we could do for her. Paige stayed home from church and cried and took care of her. We thought perhaps she would pass away quickly, but she didn't and it was just heart breaking to see her suffering. This was just the beginning!

The next event happened as we got ready to go visit my parents in Strawberry this weekend. We decided to take both Rex (our dog) and Moonlight with us. Saturday morning my parents had a missionary meeting that they were speaking at and Dave and I decided to go on our weekly run. We thought all would be well with our kids while we were gone. After all they seem very responsible, most of the time, except when they decide to do some strange things, which I guess is what happened this day. When we got back we had another traumatic animal experience.

My kids have made friend with my parents neighbor, Myndi. They go help work with the horses, cleaning etc. and then she will give them a ridding lesson. Well she had a couple of big, friendly (to kids) dogs along with her 3 horses and lama. Well, from the best we could figure Amber decided (on her own, and nothing was holding her back) to go and visit the neighbor and see if she had any work for her. Lindsay decided to take Rex outside and Paige thought she was just out in the front. She on the other hand had decided to take Rex on a walk to the neighbors. I think that she just thinks since she loves animal that all animals must love each other too. To make a long story short (and because we don't really know exactly what happened...a five year old is not the best at details all the time) Rex was attacked by Myndi's dog.

The skin was not broken, but Rex was traumatized and wouldn't walk on one leg. He hardly ate or drank anything for almost 24 hours. Mom has some other neighbors that are EMT's and work with animals as well, so we called and she took a look at Rex and said that she thought we should give it a little time. It didn't look like his back was hurt and because he was holding up his leg, not dragging it it probably wasn't broken.
This a picture of Rex just shortly after the attack, we just wanted to make him comfortable.


Below is Rex this morning, feeling a little better, even getting around a little bit!














The last straw (at least for Paige) was when we just couldn't stand seeing Moonlight suffer any more, so we asked the husband of the woman who looked at Rex and is a dentist, if he could help us humanely help out Moonlight who was suffering more each day. So he helped put her to sleep on Saturday night. Paige cried and cried and is still trying to come to grips with losing her friend and companion. In the end, we had an opportunity to talk to our kids about being responsible and thinking before acting, and all about the plan of salvation and what we believe happens when we die. It was an emotional, learning week!

Lindsay's Birthday


We have had a water party planned for Lindsay's birthday since the beginning of summer. I knew just what we needed to do and had everything ready. Putting on birthday parties is not one of my favorite activities so I thought that this one would be easy! So Wednesday morning dawns and it looks like a winter morning (even though it was still 90 degrees out there) with the rain and dark clouds. Oh no I thought, now what do I do. I now have to plan a party for kids INSIDE with games and everything!!! I had planned the party to last an hour and a half because it was all outside. Lots of thoughts went through my head, like...I will just tell the parents that it will only be for an hour, maybe I could cancel and reschedule...and similar things. Then I just relaxed and told myself that everything will work out! Sure enough the sun came out and it was hot and muggy...perfect for a water party birthday!

A month ago Lindsay had invited her primary teachers to come and they came!!!
So we had a great time and I am glad that it all worked out!

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

1st day of School!





We flew smoothly through the first day of school. Everyone was pretty happy. Here are a couple of fun shots of the kids before they left for the day. There is the serious and then the not so serious! But the one that cracked me up the most is how happy Lindsay was to be at school.

Sunday, August 3, 2008

I am still learning!

Okay, I got the picture in here, but now I need to learn how to put a the cute border around the photo! I am learning more everyday and I love reading every one's blogs. I was a bit sad, because I came back to my blog this week and didn't see any comments. Funny how the comments make writing my blog more fun. But then I was trying to figure stuff out and realized there were lots of comments and suddenly I felt loved again! I know it is so silly, but thanks to all of you who read my stuff and help me feel happy! I will definitely be leaving more comments on your blogs from now on!

Kent's Birthday!

Here is Kent with the desk! I didn't ever take a "before" picture, but the after looks pretty good. He was a pretty excited. We also got him some paper, a tape dispenser, a stapler and some pencils to go along with the desk and chair. We also got him an alarm clock, because now he will be in first grade and has to make sure he gets up in time for school. It ended up being a fun day even though it was a Sunday and a Fast Sunday at that! He wanted "panacakes" for his special birthday dinner. Kind of a funny request for a break the fast meal, but who cares! We added eggs and bacon and it ended up great!

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Rain Forest Cafe & the IMAX

Yesterday, at the last minute, I decided to take my kids to the Arizona Mills Mall to the Rain Forest Cafe and the IMAX theater. I thought that sounded fun and since they had all done the summer reading program at the Library it would be mostly FREE. Which is always a good thing! So I first started looking for all the coupons. We ended up with 6 coupons to the Rain Forest Cafe and only 3 to the IMAX, how did that happen??? Oh well! We always seem to be living right on the edge, mostly okay, but not completely right.

Anyway I decided I couldn't keep all this fun to myself so I called up Diane and MaryAnn (knowing that their kids had also done the reading thing) hoping that someone would join us in our adventure. They (mostly) willingly joined us and we had a nice tidy group of 14!!! As our kids were running (at full speed) down the mall to the Rain Forest Cafe I wondered how our "small" thundering group looked. I can hardly believe how many kids we three adults were responsible for. In fact maybe the kids were wondering that too, because in the movie Kent leaned over to me and asked "Mom how come there are only 3 grown ups with all these kids?" I wanted to say, "I don't know son I think we are CRAZY!", but I just replied in good mother form, "That is just the way it is." I guess the movie was interesting enough to him that he didn't question me and just went back to trying to reach out and touch the whale coming out of the screen.

I guess I should mention that the IMAX was in 3-D and the glasses were a bit funky. We got in a little late (seating and taking care of 14 at the restaurant took a while) and the movie had started. So Lindsay sat down and settled in and put on her glasses and immediately took them off. I came over and talked to her and told her to put them back on and she told me, "No, the movie is too close when they are on!" I was chuckling and thinking...but that is what it is supposed to be like. I finally convinced her to put them on for a while when the dolphins were on the screen (nice and sweet and playful, not like the scary whales!). Well it was quite an adventure to end our summer outings! Thanks to MaryAnn & Diane for joining in on the FUN!

I did it!

Thanks to MaryAnn & Erika, I was able to "cuten" up my blog! Yeah! Thanks a ton!