A Tribute to a Wonderful Father-in-Law

Today was a sad day for our family. We lost our Grandpa, Father, Father-in-law Kent Garner. I wanted to just take a minute to remember some of the happy times...there were many! We have been blessed to have him on "borrowed" time for at least 6 1/2 years and really almost 20 since he was first diagnosed with cancer. Dave was in the MTC when Kent was first diagnosed. Fortunately, at that time all went well and many years were spent working, living, growing and loving.

About the time that I was pregnant with our 4th child, Kent and Suzann were preparing to serve a mission and through the physical check up's it was discovered that the cancer had returned. Kent was told that the cancer had gone into his bones. At the time the Doctor gave him 6 months to 5 years to live and that it would depended on how well his body responded to the treatment. He responded well for over 5 years and the last year plus has been a exclamation blessing.

We named our son after both his grandpa's (Kent R. Garner & C. Kent Hugh). It seemed appropriate at the time and continues to give us opportunities to teach him about the importance of a name. In fact just yesterday he was asked to give a talk in Primary and he talked about being part of a family and what a privilege it is to share his name with some wonderful men.

I just wanted to include a couple of pictures from around Christmas Time when we shared some wonderful times with Grandpa Kent Garner.



I am so thankful for the example that Grandpa Kent was to me and my family. I am thankful that I have the opportunity to be a part of his family. The funeral will be on Monday, March 2, 2009 at the Highland Stake Center here in Gilbert. There will be tears and laughter as we celebrate his life and legacy.

Fun Weekend!

The stressful week leading up to our weekend ski trip was tough, but we made it through with lots of help from family and friends. The most stressful part was making sure that my kids were taken care of while we were gone. Thanks to everyone who stepped in and make it possible to go, and for helping us to not feel guilty for leaving at such a crazy time.

We arrived in SLC with no problems. We went to get our rental car and our challenge was to see if we could fit 5 adults with luggage into our Dodge Charger. Well, we put the men on the job and they came through with flying colors. I stood outside and observed the process, while Camille sat in the car and went for a ride, as they pushed and pulled and manuvered. It all worked out and we didn't even have to hold any suitcases on our laps!

Mission Accomplished!!

We drove up to Park City, settled in and then went to rent our skis so we would be ready for a full day of skiing the next morning. During the night it had snowed lightly and it was so quiet and beautiful. I don't miss driving in the snow, but I do miss the quiet and how beautiful the world is when it is dressed in white.


We had clouds on an off all day and sometimes the visibility was limited, but we all had a great time with no major wipeouts!! Dave is becoming quite the skier!

The views from the tops of the mountain were spectacular
and it was fun to be with my sweatheart!

We stayed at Camille's parent's home, which is just beautiful. We celebrated Sara's birthday (thanks to April for all the planning, preparation and execution!), spent time relaxing in the hot tub, played games and talked.

Sunday we went to church and then drove down to Heber Valley and did some sight seeing. Here we are at the Homestead in Midway.

When it came time to come home it was bittersweet. I missed my kids, but I love being with just adults too for a while!

I am READY for some good news!

Life seems to get more complicated the older I get. My kids have problems I don't know how to help solve no matter how many parenting books I read or classes I attend; my friends have trials I don't know how to help them through; and to top it all off Dave's Dad's health is starting to really deteriorate. Why did I ever think that when I got older things would be easier because I would be wiser? I remember looking at my mom when she was my age and thinking that she knew how to handle everything. Maybe she did or maybe it was just my perception. I hope my kids look through the same rose-colored glasses I did and then when they are older I can tell them the truth (life is never as easy as everyone else makes it look). It is times like this that I am glad that I have started to try and understand what Faith is all about. I know that I can't figure this out on my own and I have to just trust that the Lord knows what He is doing and that everything will work out the way that it is supposed to. I am also sure that there is a lot of praying going on...and not just at my house!

Learning to appreciate life.

When faced with mortality it is amazing how insignificant some things become that seemed important only moments before. Well, for example, like getting the laundry done, the dirty blinds, spots on the carpet...on second thought those things were never really that significant to me. I better try another avenue. Keeping in touch with friends, thinking I will figure out someway how to repay a kindness, but never really getting around to it, wishing my kids would stop whining, but not taking the time to help them figure out what they need. Hopefully, I can find the important things from an ETERNAL perspective and focus on those!

New Picture

Okay so today while I was working on the computer, Dave came up behind me and informed me that I needed to change the picture that is on my blog. I promptly told him that I don't have any good pictures of me, so he proceeded to take several. So to make him happy I now have a new picture. I am not so sure it is any better, but it is new:).